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Remember the person, not just the date

You already care. Noyala helps you show it.

Keep the birthdays, the names, the small things people tell you. Noyala reminds you at the right moment and helps you find the words — then waits for you to read them and decide.

Free to start, on iPhone today and Android soon. No advertising. Your notes are yours to export or delete.

Tuesday morning

Two people this week

Nothing urgent. Both are worth ten minutes.

Thursday · birthday

Daniel Osei turns 41

He moved to Lisbon in March. Nina started school there.

Prepare a message

No date · been a while

Amara Nwosu

Four months since you last spoke. She was waiting on results.

Noyala is a private notebook for your relationships. It holds what you know about people, tells you when it matters, and never speaks for you.

How it works

Three steps

Write things down, get told at the right moment, and decide what to send.

Step one

Write down what you know

A name is enough to start. Then add the small things as you hear them — a new job, a hard month, the marathon they keep mentioning. One fact per note reads best a year later.

Mark anything delicate as private and it stays out of drafts and out of shared circles.

Daniel Osei · memories

Training for the Accra half-marathon in November

Ordinary

Nina started school in Lisbon in March

Ordinary

His father is unwell. Do not raise it first.

Private · never drafted

Ordinary notes can inform a draft. Private ones never do.

Step two

Be told at the right moment

Birthdays and anniversaries come with as much warning as you ask for. People you have not spoken to in a while surface on their own, without a streak or a score attached.

Noyala never claims you spoke to someone. It knows only what you tell it.

This month

September

Thu 10Daniel Osei turns 41Birthday · 3 days’ warning
Sat 19Kwame and Efua, 12 yearsAnniversary
Amara Nwosu4 months since you spoke

No streaks. No score. An empty week is a real answer.

Step three

Find the words, then decide

Noyala reads your own notes and offers three ways to say it — warm and brief, built on a memory, or playful. You edit any of them, approve it by hand, and send it from your own app.

You can always write it yourself. The drafts are a starting point, not the product.

Three options · Daniel

Warm and briefHappy birthday, Daniel. 41 looks good on you. Thinking of you today.
Built on a memoryHappy birthday, Daniel. Still training for the Accra half? I want to hear how that is going.
Playful41. Officially the age where you start recommending mattresses. Happy birthday, Daniel.

You edit, you approve, you press send.

Your hand on the send button

Nothing leaves your hands unread

Noyala can draft a message from what you have written down. It cannot send one. Every draft waits behind a tick box you have to read first.

Noyala opens your sharing options with the approved message ready. You still choose the app, recipient and whether to press send.

Notes you mark private are held back from drafting entirely, and from anyone you share a circle with.

Read how we handle your data

Built on a memory

Happy birthday, Daniel. Still training for the Accra half? I want to hear how that is going. Send me a voice note when you get a minute — I want the unedited version.

228 characters · you can edit every word

I have read this and I approve itNoyala opens nothing until this is ticked.
Choose where to send

Four commitments

What we promise, in plain words

If any of them stops being true, we will say so before it changes.

  1. We do not sell or share your data

    Not to advertisers, not to data brokers, not to “partners”. Noyala makes money from subscriptions and nothing else, so there is nothing to sell you out for.

  2. No advertising, and no profiling for it

    Your relationships are not an audience segment. No advertising trackers, and no advertising identifiers. We keep minimal, privacy-respecting product analytics and crash reports so we can fix what breaks — never your relationship data, and never for profiling.

  3. Nothing is sent without your approval

    A generated message cannot leave Noyala on its own. It waits behind a tick box you have to read, and you press send in your own messaging app.

  4. Your notes remain yours to take or destroy

    Export the lot as a readable file whenever you want, and delete your account directly from the app or this site. Before you confirm, Noyala explains exactly what will be deleted and whether any recovery period applies.

Start with one person

Add someone, write down one thing you know about them, and let Noyala carry it for you.

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